Lots of people approach each new year with hopes and dreams and anticipation, and many channel all that energy into resolutions for the year to come.  In all honesty, I have never been that kind of person.  Oh, I would feel the hopes and dreams well up, the anxiety and anticipation would fill my head and heart with excitement and concern for the coming year like everyone else.  I have just never committed.  I have never set goals….out of fear.  I have always struggled with a fear of failure.  Somehow, in my own weird way, I allowed myself, for a very long time, to believe that if I set goals,…